When
you are confident about yourself and have 100% belief in your actions, it goes
a long way in you moving up the ladder in life. Before taking any important
decision in your life, you always wonder,
what others would think of you if you don’t succeed, don’t you? Instead, it is
more important to analyse how much you trust yourself with that particular
decision. If you are convinced that what
you are doing is right, you don’t have to justify yourself to anybody. It’s a
wonderful feeling to feel very confident about your life. However, did you know
that the way you think had the power to increase your self-belief?
The
art of visualisation is very powerful for boosting self-confidence, according
to motivational speakers and experts. When you see yourself in a particular
position talking confidently to a group of people, there is a very high
probability for you to believe that you can climb greater heights than before.
Having a clear view of the big picture and being able to put yourself there,
increases your chances of success. Here are some ways in which you can use
visualization to improve your self-confidence or self-belief.
1.
Put yourself in where you
want to be in a few years
If
you are a small boy who aspires to become a pilot when he grows up, you need to visualise yourself wearing the smart
uniform of a pilot, flying a plane amidst turbulent weather and taking the
passengers safely to their respective destinations. Imagine talking to the
control rook about instructions and also have mental talks with your co-pilot
on how you are going to plan your flight for the day. Visualise yourself living
your life in a suitcase, travelling to different countries and living a busy
but satisfying life. As you keep visualising, the urge to reach that position
increases within you,and it will
automatically boost your self-confidence.
2.
Put yourself in your role
model’s position
Are
you a young cricketer who dreams of representing his country one day? Is Sachin
Tendulkar your role model? You would have obviously
watched his matches and techniques, but have you watched his body language
closely? Watch out how he walks into the stand to the deafening noise of
thousands of people chanting, “Sachin.
Sachin..”. How does he conduct himself on and off the field? How does he
interact with senior cricketers, media and everybody else? How does he react
when his team loses? These are some of the points you have to follow. Now put
yourself in the position of your role model. Change your body language and
techniques to match of that your role model or father-figure. When you
visualise yourself in a successful position, you are sure to build more
confidence in yourself.
In
short, visualisation is the technique of seeing the big picture and also
putting yourself in the frame of the picture. This way, you can foresee the
success that you are bound to experience many years later. When you imagine
yourself as the next Sachin Tendulkar, you will only start working harder than
ever to chase your dreams, with an increased belief in yourself.
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