Attain True Control By Mastering Your self!
Know Who You Are
Take a minute to think. Think what your fortes are.
Think what you are able to do. We're not talking about things that you're an
expert in, even some amount of knowledge in that certain area will do. Then
take a blank piece of paper and put down these things. Then set them in order.
The first 3 things ought to be the things that you
truly do well, followed by matters that you are able to do fairly well,
followed by things that you may barely do but
you may learn and improve. Take a look at this piece of paper. Keep it with you
always. This is what you're capable of. It's a piece of what you are.
This realization is exceedingly
valuable to you when you're trying to make a self-assessment. You have to know
what you can do and what you are able to improve upon. If you're trying to
become a master at something, it's really important to be sure of yourself and
not live under illusions.
Remember that you shouldn’t take
what individuals say at face value. Somebody may tell you that you paint well,
but that individual may be prejudiced. You have to value yourself.
Likely entering into a competition
will tell you where you stand. At the same time, don’t shoot yourself down
overmuch either. If you're good at something, you're good at it. Don’t get
overworked that you aren’t as good as the legends. You are able to always
improve.
Give It A Shot
A lot of individuals lose out on life because they do not
attempt anything they think will be too hard. They don’t try because of
assorted preconceptions and complexes.
They may feel that they are not up to executing something,
but this could be a view of other people and not of themselves. However if you
bear the correct belief in yourself, you will understand what you are capable
of, and you will not cringe when attempting new things.
Think of an individual who knows that he can do well in a
certain racing contest. He hasn’t raced previously, and so there will be a lot
of individuals to say that he is languishing his time. Most of us, if we were
in his place, would take such criticism and think that we truly cannot
accomplish that, and we don’t even make the attempt.
However suppose this individual has a belief in himself. He
knows that he is able to do it, even though he hasn’t shown the world so far
that he may accomplish that particular thing. So he surges on.
He puts in a great deal of practice. He's propelled by
himself, and that’s the most beneficial motive you could have. Whether he wins or
loses is a different matter entirely. What is significant is that he tried.
The crux of all this is, don’t take other people’s critiques
blindly. They don’t know you. They don’t comprehend what you feel. You are the
only individual who knows you.
Your father doesn’t, your mom doesn’t, your teacher doesn’t,
your lady friend or boyfriend doesn’t, your spouse doesn’t, your employer
doesn’t.
It's solely you who have your self-worth and within the realms
of this, you are able to arrive at your decisions and maybe even succeed.
Follow these steps:
-Arrive at an appraisal of what you'll
require
-Arrive at an appraisal of what you
have
-Study, search and reread
-Strategy for your goals
-Build Your Confidence
-Tell Yourself You Can
A person who constantly does that will always be taking strides in the direction of becoming more and more proficient at that thing.
PRACTICE MAKES MAN PERFECT!!
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